Arguments ain't gonna win a trophy!!

FIGHT AND PERISH.

Have we guys ever given a thought of the reason why we argue everyday for everything.is it a simple day to day routine or a sacred ritual to be proud of? I have seen fighting happen over a lot of places..buses,parks even in temples for heaven sake.don't you see the ppl near u ?who is looking down at you like a couple of pigs fighting it out in the mud .yes everyone does have their problems of their own but that doesn't justify exhibiting the "circus" in front of others.i seriously find it hard to believe that most of them are well educated blokes .i don't think the war of words ain't gonna fetch u anything even if it is in privacy.

when it is certain that a solution cant be achieved by the end of the argument why the hell should one let that happen at the first place.countries say talks are still on and on and on..they ll keep on talking till the next govt kicks in and they will swear oath and start the same.its not that the problems cant be solved.its that if they solve all d problems then our poor souls might wake up and take a look at whats happening and how much they are stacking up in the banks of Swiss."Divide and Rule" a popular method by the British ,when they were ruling here is he same tool used by our politicos to rule us.cant ppl just think a few moments before starting off something.At least the consequences.if two ppl fight ,they aren't the only ones who get hurt.all the surrounding gets rubbed off.its like a epidemic breaking out and spreads like a forest fire.its a fire that can be put out only through proper maturity and true love.i firmly believe that u cant hurt those you love.the elixir of life doesn't work in that way.

I personally believe silence is a true virtue.it is the silence which can be the greatest of words that can be said at times.as a wise men said"discussion is a exchange of knowledge ; argument is a exchange of ignorance".I'm not saying no one can never get angry.I'm just asking you to imagine a world with no quarrel,no unnecessary arguments.it ll be certainly a better place to live in.smiles in everyone's faces and happiness fluttering its wings around.:):)

when a argument flares up he wise men quenches it with silence

Hope-clinging on

Learn from yesterday,live from today and hope for tomorrow

Life is not in the same par for everyone nor is it certain.The future might seem bright on one day and gloomy on the other.When your chips are down, I feel that its the responsibility of the people around one to keep him comfortable and make him feel that "this isnt over".The other day I been to dubai's home ,his parents and sister hit me with a variety of complaints against him about not working hard.yes ,its understandable that they are concerned about the future of their young one but invariably they put on a lot on pressure on us.Getting through dental pg entrance aint like a walk in d park.it requires lot of hardwork and patience and support that one must get from the family.

Lot of parents really think that the younger generation have no thought about their future and their life.Im not accusing the family here because its the very soul of everyones life. it has been the concept thats been passed on from generations."Be strict to your small ones otherwise they ll become really bad".what misconceptions!!! being strict ?yes you got to be at times but a pat on the shoulder and a friendly advise would do more than a blow to the shoulder.Kid making a living of the shattered dream of his father.thinking whats best for us is really good but after a point of time i personally feel that we must be treated as friends and not as "the same kids",we once where.we don't want your strict guidelines ,just your advise at the right moments .

A word of encouragement and a "don't worry we have got your back" kind of say does ones confidence a lot of good instead of the pressure they add up on our shoulders which already is under a lot of strain.I beg you not to fracture it.I have also seen a lot of parents who keeps their kids at ease and help them achieve what they set out to achieve instead of making their life appear more gloomy without their very own knowledge.I know you all love us and want us to achieve the best in life but all we are asking is for your support to get through a rough phase.by the end of the day all we need is a lovely family with a happy ,stress free atmosphere to flourish in.I know for sure the generation is changing and those who are in the receiving end will take up the responsibility to be a better elder.are times changing??i personally believe your, what you think you are.Positive thoughts brighten up the darkness and like they say"every donkey has its day":) even we will:):)

LOVE

d four magic letters isnt?i have always felt that love was more a reaction to the harmones in our body than the heart reaching out for her as poets say..bt things always change doesn it?

I had nothing in my life till you stepped in

Nothing in my heart till you breezed my soul

Nothing in my brains till i realised how much i love you

And now its weeping tears whenever i had to say goodbye!!

I just clutch your hands tight not to let go off you

I wanna hold you in my arms and see your eyes

catch that magical twinkle up close near

and hold you like that forever.

I wanna hear your heartbeat whenever you echo ma name

i wanna stay close to you always and your mom calls me insane:):)

hey ppl..i really don't know what im doing here but i just wanna feel how it s to b a writing something.many of ma friends have been blogging for a long time but i have always stayed away from all of it because of the negative criticism i might get for bringing myself up in such a big scenario which is hot and happening "the internet".

when i told ma sister that i wanna write something she was like"come on dumbo.wat do u know about ?what can you write about?".very realistic question hitting the nail on its head.yes i dont know much bt still i have an opinion on everything as everyone does ,right or wrong and so i felt i can feel free to voice what i feel about.

i have always felt that being not so rich in the vocabulary part of it i can never write.but when i told the "monster"(ma bestbuddy) she told me it isnt such a big scar to be worried of.i dont know anything about blogs and this the first time, im entering into one.so your comments are highly valuable to me. .